The purpose of this ministry is to share your faith and to be a friend. We want our invitation to share in this outreach to be a blessing and not a problem. We are all members of God's family and whatever you do reflects on all of us. Please follow the rules so we can retain the integrity of this program.
| 1. LONELY. Isolated from family, friends, the outside world, time drags. Try to write regularly and reply promptly. |
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2. USELESS. Incarceration devastates their self worth. Build up their talents and good qualities. Don't dwell on past crimes or preach. Become an encouraging friend, and a little praise goes a long way in building self worth. |
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3. BITTER. Inmates may harbor bitterness against those in authority, those who testified against them, and/or society. Encourage proper attitudes by helping them see authority as good and necessary. If they feel they have been dealt with unjustly, help them see the importance of forgiveness. |
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4. AIMLESS. Life in prison is different from life in society. They may have difficulty adjusting to the present or planning for the future. Ask about interests, talents, work experience and education to inspire them to set goals for their lives. |
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5. SUSPICIOUS. They've grown up believing that nothing comes free and have never had positive relationships. They may suspect your motives. In time, your sincerity and Christ's love will shine through!. |
A male Inmate can easily become infatuated with a woman he has never met, even a married woman. They are very lonely; loosing contact with loved ones and friends. We encourage a single woman to involve her Bible Study and/or friends, sending letters as a group.
We encourage married women to give the names of her husband and children, signing letters from the family. Many seek family ties and the love of Christ shared through family letters can open hearts to the Gospel. It keeps the correct focus in the relationship.
